The most-reacted failure stories on Surbias. Real people, real failures, no happy endings required.
Closed in March, peak rate, peak price. The mortgage is twice what rent would have been. I am not underwater on paper, but I would lose money if I sold. I tell myself it is a long game. The math says I might be right in …
We had data showing the original product was not working in month four. We pivoted in month fourteen. By then half the team had quit, the board had stopped returning emails, and the new direction needed money we no longe…
Year one, the topic excited me. Year three, I was avoiding my advisor's emails. Year four, I sat in the library and realized I had not opened my notes in two months. I emailed the registrar, said I was withdrawing, walke…
I left a well-paid role to figure things out. I had savings, a vague plan, and a lot of confidence. Eighteen months later I am interviewing for the same kind of job I left, two levels lower, explaining a gap I cannot mak…
Engineering for fifteen years, then I burned out and pivoted into UX. Took loans for a bootcamp, did the portfolio, made the case in interviews. Two years and four jobs later, I am back in engineering. The pivot was not …
Three years across two oceans. We had the spreadsheet of visits, the shared playlists, the saved screenshots. I was on a layover when I read her message. I did not even land before it was over. Six months later we both m…
I had dreamed about this city for a decade. Took the job, sold the car, bought a one-way ticket. Three months in, I realized the version of the city I loved was the one in my head, not the one I was in. The weather, the …
Two years of building. Press kit, launch video, beta list of four thousand people. Tuesday morning the post went up. By Friday we had done three hundred dollars in revenue and eleven signups. I refreshed analytics for a …
I have lost the same fifteen pounds maybe seven times. New plan, six weeks of discipline, a slip, a slide, a year of nothing, repeat. I can recite macros from memory. I have three gym memberships across two cities. The m…
We had what we thought was twelve months of runway. The CFO had been hiding a payroll miscalculation for two quarters. Real number was three months. We told the team on a Thursday. By Monday, half had already lined up in…
I told myself I was just tired. For about eighteen months. Then I could not get out of bed for a week. Took unpaid leave. Could not tell anyone the real reason. The doctor said burnout is a process, not an event. The eve…
I got an email that looked like it came from my bank. I had just moved, my account info was in flux, the timing made sense. I clicked. I entered. By the time I called the real bank, the money was gone. Insurance covered …
First time, I told myself the timing was off. Second time, the role was not quite right. Third time, my new manager pulled me aside and asked if this was the right ladder for me. I am still here. I do not know if I am st…
Eight thousand dollars, twelve weeks, no-code SaaS in ninety days. The instructor was good at marketing. The curriculum was a YouTube playlist with a Notion doc. I built nothing, learned nothing useful, and still owe mos…
Everything I do, remains unfinished. ALL THE TIME.