I left a stable role for the company I had been chasing for two years. I gave it everything: late nights, weekends, side projects nobody asked for. Six months in, my manager forwarded a calendar invite from HR. I spent three weeks pretending it had not happened. I still do not know what I did wrong, or if I did anything at all.
First time, I told myself the timing was off. Second time, the role was not quite right. Third time, my new manager pulled me aside and asked if this was the right ladder for me. I am still here. I do not know if I am staying because I want to, or be...
I left a well-paid role to figure things out. I had savings, a vague plan, and a lot of confidence. Eighteen months later I am interviewing for the same kind of job I left, two levels lower, explaining a gap I cannot make sound interesting. The freed...
Engineering for fifteen years, then I burned out and pivoted into UX. Took loans for a bootcamp, did the portfolio, made the case in interviews. Two years and four jobs later, I am back in engineering. The pivot was not wrong. I was. I wanted to want...
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