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My boss hated me and I never figured out why

From day one she found something to fix in everything I did. I tried adapting, then documenting, then keeping my head down. None of it worked. I left a year later thinking I had dodged something. The new place is fine. But I still wake up sometimes wondering what she actually saw.

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